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The real problem is the parents, for putting up with this nonsense. Send your kids to private schools, home school or move to sane states!
Exactly,also a good old fashioned pants down ass woopin would help as well
That’s child abuse.
Well as the Bible said about sowing the wind and reaping the whirlwind.
Bible also says He disciplines those He loves.
We’re seeing how tolerance and lack of discipline has created our whirlwind.
Discipline takes a number of forms and doesn’t include abuse.
Care to list the discipline you approve of?
Instruction is one thing, restricting privileges, interventions perhaps by numerous family members and friends, teaching and explaining ramifications. Also, the ‘rod’ in the Bible means correction, not physical punishment per se. If what Thirdworldfarmer, and apparently yourself propose doing to a child in the name of punishment and that’s done to the wrong child (re: temperament and personality of the child, that parent-child relationship is over).
Spanking is abuse? YOUR OPINION and that you’re entitled to. Spanking is physical correction when other means have failed- pants down removes added padding-did not say bare ass you bringing that up would suggest your deviant nature ( my opinion) or are you a victim? If so,seek the community help you advocate for. I raise my children- community child raising would be a communist platform-kindly visit a communist website (my opinion)
What I notice on the video is a bunch of people with nothing better to do than watch and or film a few undisciplined people half ass (meaning half attempted-not the sexual ass implications) fight with some commissars? trying to intervene while holding their walkie talkie totally undisciplined anarchy
Lots of good comments here sorry I was late to discussion have work to do in the real world
“Another major change in the landscape was precipitated by research that questioned the traditional punishment–abuse dichotomy. Although research began to accumulate in the 1970s that showed that most physical abuse is physical punishment (in intent, form and effect), studies of child maltreatment have since clarified this finding. For example, the first cycle of the Canadian Incidence Study of Reported Child Abuse and Neglect39 (CIS 1998) showed that 75% of substantiated physical abuse of children occurred during episodes of physical punishment. This finding was replicated in the second cycle of the study (CIS 2003).40 Another large Canadian study41 found that children who were spanked by their parents were seven times more likely to be severely assaulted by their parents (e.g., punched or kicked) than children who were not spanked. In an American study,42 infants in their first year of life who had been spanked by their parents in the previous month were 2.3 times more likely to suffer an injury requiring medical attention than infants who had not been spanked. Studies of the dynamics of child physical abuse have shed light on this process, which involves parents attributing conflict to child willfulness43 and/or rejection,44 as well as coercive family dynamics9 and conditioned emotional responses.45”
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3447048/#:~:text=Another%20large%20Canadian%20study41,children%20who%20were%20not%20spanked.
“The Effect of Spanking on the Brain”
“The study looked at 147 children, including some who were spanked and some who were not spanked in the beginning years of their lives, to see potential differences to the brain. By using MRI assessment, researchers observed changes in brain response while the children viewed a series of images featuring facial expressions that indicate emotional response, such as frowns and smiles. They found that children who had been spanked had a higher activity response in the areas of their brain that regulate these emotional responses and detect threats — even to facial expressions that most would consider non-threatening.
Perhaps surprisingly, says Cuartas, spanking elicits a similar response in children’s brains to more threatening experiences like sexual abuse. “You see the same reactions in the brain,” Cuartas explains. “Those consequences potentially affect the brain in areas often engaged in emotional regulation and threat detection, so that children can respond quickly to threats in the environment.”
“Preschool and school age children — and even adults — [who have been] spanked are more likely to develop anxiety and depression disorders or have more difficulties engaging positively in schools and skills of regulation, which we know are necessary to be successful in educational settings.”
Recognize that spanking is not an effective tool of discipline in the classroom or at home. When parents or teachers use spanking, it doesn’t lead to the desired outcomes in discipline or teach children how to regulate their emotions. “We know there are better techniques, like positive discipline, that are more effective,” Cuartas says. “The most important tool out there is explaining to children certain behaviors that are wrong and what type of behavior to seek through an example.””
https://www.gse.harvard.edu/news/uk/21/04/effect-spanking-brain
We are discussing the video posted-(1) no one is talking about spanking infants (2)acadamianut studies tend to have the results intended for by the funding (3)again, spanking would be the final discipline measure -not to be confused with ongoing ritualistic or systematic beating (4)again what discipline means would you employ in the stated video to both stop the incident & further occurrence?
What the video implies is a systemic problem throughout this country of broken families. Even if there were severe physical repercussions in the way of punishment by say, a father, once the young adult is back with his or her friends, and the same or similar environment and circumstances, this would in most cases be recurring or worsen. This is the streets, i.e., the inner city which was systematically destroyed with very little, if any, intervention by the rest of the populace. It seems that it requires a whole package so to speak of reconstruction, economically, socially, and politically. However, in the short term, removing the wayward participants (if feasible) into a boot camp of sorts where they can obtain job skills, with jobs provided afterwards, as well as an economic means of transportation, also learning basic nutrition, life skill sets and about their emotional well-being, with a ‘rotating door’ option to come and go as needed. The churches are unavailable for them, and so are social services, to the degree really needed.
Ever been to REAL boot camp??? And I am still waiting on your discipline recommendations? The whole community thing (communism) doesn’t wash unless you’re paying for it ( not in charge of it just paying for it)
Yes, I’ve been to boot camp. However the reference was to a “boot camp of sorts”, implying there would be some regimentation. As was pointed out, many of those individuals don’t have the immediate support structure for more of the personal aspects of discipline-based interactions, hence the above would be a preemptive intervention. You seem to have missed the failure of the corporate Christian church system in addressing and maintaining an outreach into these social disruptions. Why hasn’t the church proposed debt jubilees, and the doing away with unlawful usury? The infringement of allowing people to work full-time and pay three-fourths of their monthly income towards rent is preposterous. Additionally, a social contract is also the purview of the church. They’ll go on international mission trips but the ghetto downtown seems to be too much for them. Look at the early church leaders and how they helped shape the levers of power such as St. Augustine, i.e., Just War Theory, etc. They were always thinking and coming up with the theories and philosophies (the practical application thereof), in which to conduct the workings and functioning of the socio-political realm, thereby ensuring they were among the movers and shakers of day-to-day life, and not only recipients of what ‘the others’ decide for them.
Webster dictionary 1828, chasten, to correct by punishment; to punish; to inflict pain for the purpose of reclaiming an offender; as, to chasten a son with a rod.
tom why are you trying to use logic, facts and other raycesst shit on a liberal?
It’s FEEEEELINGS matter, it’s internet research of psychobabble matters. It’s the SCIENCE that there ARE more than 2 genders and so on.
Z-la refuses to tell us it’s success in raising its own kids (if any).
Maybe I’m wrong, has happened before. But after reading many long-winded Z-la posts, I doubt it. I see patterns.
My table is over there, the knuckledragger grandpa with a pot of coffee ready.
A spanking is child abuse? The fathers should take care of this, with an assault!
Thirdworldfarmer said:
“A good old fashioned pants down ass woopin would help as well”.
That very easily could be a sexual violation, spanking with the pants down (or even without the pants down). If a parent or school authority, relative, babysitter, etc., has a predilection towards pedophilia, the child will be creeped out by this. Also, if the ‘authority’ figure has an anger issue, and uses more force than is necessary, that is straight out abuse. Another motive can be to control the child, and spanking redundantly or with hatred or jealousy of the child, such as with a narcissistic parent, when really the child doesn’t need any discipline, but rather nurture. These types of abuses are well documented throughout America.
Hey, I am just a knuckle dragger.
What do you mean?
Knuckle dragger Noun
One who has raised old school successful “Good Kids ” by ignoring Dr Spock and Company.
Interventions LOL. Let’s ask the police about them.
In general, spanking is for people who don’t have the creativity to otherwise raise their child, or they lack resources, emotional, social and financial support. They may be repeating a generational cycle of abuse. What form(s) of discipline did/do you employ or advocate towards children? Why would you consider that effective?
Z-La
Please tell us about YOUR Successes in raising good productive taxpaying children.
I have three adult kids, all military service, all have good kids. One grandchild is a RN. The rest love to learn and help Grandpa around the homestead. Yep, all of them even Sara loves to hunt and cleans their own kills.
Yep, this knuckledragger raised good children and as that wolf meme says:
You touch my pups you’ll NEVER stand to pee again.
Not a threat, just the facts. As one boyfriend found out.
Lots of definitions, all brawn no brain, gorilla, Neanderthal. I am now all the things liberals hate.
Part of the problem with disciplining males is that we are kind of stupid and insensitive to physical pain. For younger or immature ones you have to convince us you will kill us if we misbehave, think of a drill sargent.
If the threats are early enough and convincing, we learn to behave.
Now women are entirely different, physical threats and physical pain are abhorrent to them and tend to assume it is to males as well, it isn’t. I remember when my son was an early teen whenever I got home from work, he wanted to fight, for fun, it was fine until I wrecked my elbow.
My daughters were entirely different, your suggestions worked well on them. Violence by men against women should not be tolerated, in the strongest terms! Young men need to learn, if they are violent against women, some real man will only kick their ass, if they are lucky!
Such are the opinions of a very old, knuckle dragging curmudgeon.
That’s probably a very accurate point about the differences between the genders. Thank you for acknowledging that. Every child cannot be disciplined the same way. There is personality, temperament, spiritual development and worldview (or the formation of such). What works for one may ruin another. Just ask people who have six or seven children, or even three. This may have to do with the gender confusion today and over the past many decades. The prodigal son was not beaten, nor his brother who was obstinate to his father in regard to the favor shown to his brother. There are many other instances in the Bible in which children were not beaten, but rather corrected. Yes, punishment needs to be rendered to men who ask or demand women have abortions (and not as a matter of shaming, but to show the seriousness of protecting the unborn) and other forms of abuse. What would be an appropriate form of discipline for women postulating abortion for other women?
Spare the rod spoil the child.
“‘Spare the Rod, Spoil the Child’ Isn’t Biblical”
“Corporal punishment does not have its basis in the Bible. When one examines the verse, “He that spareth the rod hateth his son,” one needs to understand the tools shepherds used in tending their sheep. They used a crook to lift sheep out of holes they had fallen into, and they used the rod, a straight stick, to guide them. The sheep were not beaten with the rod. “Sparing the rod” in that sense, means that a parent must guide his or her child and teach the child right from wrong. The word “discipline” comes from the same root word as “disciple,” and discipline is teaching, training, setting an example of proper behavior, and giving consequences that help a child learn how to behave better. The word “punish” comes from a root word that means to inflict physical pain. Furthermore, nowhere in the New Testament does Jesus tell parents to use corporal punishment with their children. Spanking is not discipline; it does not teach a child how to be a better person. It is punishment, and teaches that the method of dealing with people who don’t do what you want them to is to hit them. It creates fear, and children do not learn in an atmosphere of fear.”
https://www.chicagotribune.com/news/ct-xpm-2005-03-13-0503120312-story.html
Tell us about the child raising success you’ve had with your so strong opinions.
Reality beats book learning and struggle sessions.
All you do is lecture at people. I read it as disrespect, a sign of a holier than thou disposition. Tell us about the children you have raised. Not even one smack?
It’s none of your business.
In other words Z la has no Real World ™ proof of it’s strongly held Internet Research opinions.
Or maybe “None of your business ” is liberal code for not being able to defend your opinions.
Ah Z la is our down arrows hero.
So many words inside Z la but no willingness to debate its so strongly held opinions.
You know a lot of this started with all the psychology BS, or as it should be called pyscho babble.
There certainly needs to be a mature balance. I agree with some of what you are all saying. NEVER abuse your children. But also, do not tolerate them abusing others! In this case, you ,ust do whatever it takes, for the sake of ‘this child’ as well!
Cardinal sin It is already happening here.
Mentally ill, gender-dysphoric misogynists who the people ‘who just want to be left alone’ have patiently tolerated. We are done with that. No more license to these sick .1% and to those who support them for their own sick reasons.
De ol game of smear the queer.
One real punch would end it!
Like Tucker said a while back: the war of the sexes is over. Men won.
How did men win, or women for that matter?
Seems obvious. Men pretend they are women and take over women’s spaces and steal women’s accomplishments. Why do I have to spell it out?
And to add: the majority of the sisterhood is silent, or join in the fake celebration of these men.
Not fake, perhaps. I meant craven. 🙂
Theres no winners from here on,
Kill em all and let God sort it out,
Just sayin is all.
Divine intervention is what we need
Not so many many decades ago, the perpetrator described in the video would have been arrested and committed by the courts to an institution for the criminally insane, where he might and could possibly get the help he so desperately needs.
But that will not happen, because in the perverse and depraved times in which we now find ourselves living, the people who would be assigned to help him, such as trained psychologists, are even more criminal and insane than he is. And that is just the sorry truth of the entire matter.
Did youu know that revolvers do not leave shell casings behind like semi-auto handguns?
I mean, if you wore rubber gloves when loading the bullets, there would be zero physical evidence to collect at all!
To clarify a little, I think I saw a teen age (grown) male assaulting a female! Time out is not going to work here! There is a huge difference between the discipline of a nearly grown male and a toddler or preteen. I thing discipline needs to fit the child and age.
This immature male needs jail time or as many said an ass whipping. On a positive note, other mature males intervened, as all should!