FREEMANSPERSPECTIVE

Relationships matter, a lot. We are formed by relationships with other people: parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, friends, neighbors, spouses, children, business associates, and more. The impact of relationships in our lives is profound.
But there is a factor in most of our relationships that sullies them – that warps and dirties them: the peremptory intrusion by enforcers and mediators.
The most vulgar images we have of this are the prima nocte stories – the ruler’s right of the first night with any bride – as seen in Braveheart and other pieces of fiction. (There is little or no evidence that such things ever really happened in the West.)
On a less vulgar and far more widespread scale, however, violations of our relationships are not fiction; they are all too real.
Who do you think has a right to take over your relationships with your children? What about your relationships with your spouse?









